I know that marriage is hard.
We all do.
Living with someone else is challenging and there are no easy answers. Now, I absolutely love my husband and I could never imagine living a life without him. For as long as I can remember, he has been a real provider for me and the kids. I am amazed by his determination and constant dedication to doing the right thing all the time for our sake. However, sometimes he has too many projects that he jumps into. This is especially the case when he starts renovating things or making handiwork for himself. Recently, my husband has been way too obsessed about our heating, cooling, and ventilation system, for starters. For years, it seems like he is always going downstairs to poke at the forced air furnace or wandering outside to inspect the air conditioning condenser. But that’s never where it all ends. Once he finds one thing that’s wrong with the furnace or air conditioner, we’re doomed to have a whole list of new heating, cooling, and air quality control equipment showing up at our door. I wish that he would cool his jets with the indoor air temperature control machinery, but I understand that he’s motivated to improve our air quality and take good care of our family health. That being said, I don’t think we needed a whole new air conditioner installed at home before we even had the central infrastructure to disperse high quality treated air. After he arranged for a full ductwork replacement, I thought we’d be done with the HVAC upgrades for a minute… and then came the brand new cooling system. Just calm down.