I think that it’s extremely difficult to find a good partner these days.
At least, this has been my experience in the last few years of time and date as an adult.
It doesn’t help matters that I live in a particularly challenging place. Don’t get me wrong, I love the climate in the area where I live but the social situation is very different. I don’t get along with most of the people that I interact with on a daily basis. That being said, I have started using dating apps with my eyes on other areas. It’s helpful for meeting people, but the distance always becomes an issue. I just want somebody to come down and experience my amazing outdoor air temperature before they cut the cord. I know that distance is a major concern, but so is air quality. In my opinion, the place where I live has the optimal outdoor air temperature and air quality all year round. There is little humidity in the winter but it is extremely warm. During the summer the temperatures are rather high, but you can circumvent your discomfort with an air conditioning unit. I particularly love the fact that I only need to worry about a cooling system because my furnace is not going to be used very often. It is definitely the superior way to live if you care about your energy bills and outdoor climate. temperature range is important to me and I’m not going to change. When I meet guys who live a few hundred miles away, I just start talking about my air quality and HVAC system. Surprisingly, no one has come down to see either.